Sticking to New Year’s resolutions can be difficult, especially if they’ve been made just for the sake of making them, as after a while the benefits can appear minimal. However, setting goals which are realistic, manageable and personal could be simpler than you think and much easier to stick at. Here, learning and development advisor, Oliver Dear offers some practical ways to help keep those goals well within your reach:
Big goals can feel overwhelming — especially if they require real lifestyle changes! Breaking goals down into manageable and attainable chunks helps make them more real and not a ‘some-day, one-day’ goal.
This also means not expecting quick, dramatic changes but finding a balance between dreaming big and day-to-day activities. So if your goal is to get fitter this year, think about what you can do each day, then what you can do at the weekend, what you can do the following week and so on. Breaking down a goal helps it become more achievable and eventually more of a habit!
Reflect on failure
If you fail when trying to achieve your goal, ask yourself why? Failure is ok, as long as you learn from it. Failure presents an opportunity to evaluate current practices and develop methods to prevent it from happening again.
To quote Thomas A. Edison: “Negative results are just what I want. They’re just as valuable to me as positive results. I can never find the thing that does the job best until I find the ones that don’t.”
Re-align your lifestyle
It may seem counterintuitive but don’t always focus on the goal itself. The aim is to change your behaviour over time, create a desired habit and therefore change your lifestyle. For example, when it comes to ‘fad’ diets, it’s often found that most people put the weight back on when they stop the diet because it’s not sustainable, whereas it would be better to focus on a smaller change at first. A small change in behaviour could have a much more powerful impact on the road to achieving a bigger goal.
If you have a goal, find a friend to help you and push each other to succeed. A recent study stated that people who joined health clubs individually had a 43% dropout rate over the course of a year. Those who went to the gym together, regardless of whether they focused on the same type of exercise, had only a 6.3% dropout rate!
Psychologically, if you feel like you have a responsibility and commitment toward another person, you are more likely to follow through!
Understanding the obstacles you will encounter means you can prepare for them when you’re already feeling motivated. For example, plan your workouts or meals for the week on Sunday afternoon after a relaxing day, instead of just hoping you’ll make healthy choices after a tough day at the office.
Little tricks can stop obstacles before they occur, e.g. setting a motivational song to wake you up in the morning, putting your running shoes by the front door to encourage you to get going, reminders on your calendar or removing temptation from sight! The goal is to acquire a new positive habit: make it so easy that you can’t say no.
I will leave you with one final thought from Winston Churchill: “Success is not final. Failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts”.
Now over to you, good luck!
Oliver Dear is national account manager at Mitie Client Services